tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5828721822491875400.post1640942252642671055..comments2023-11-03T04:08:12.162-05:00Comments on Eat, Drink, Marry: Second-guessing the detailsMaggiehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03948476830389001938noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5828721822491875400.post-87541572636919737202008-08-27T21:09:00.000-05:002008-08-27T21:09:00.000-05:00OK Maggie, time to take a deep breath and put the ...OK Maggie, time to take a deep breath and put the fun back in planning the event. At the end of your wedding day some things will have gone much better than expected and there will always be one things that kicks your butt. But, I am confident that those people that make the effort to be with ya'll on that special day will be overjoyed to have been part of the event and will have a wonderful time. In the end, what matters the most is whether you and Trevor end the evening feeling great about your day. Stick to your instincts. Give yourself the freedom to explore all color possibilites up until January or so. Then make your decisions and we will get it all done without an extraordinary amount of stress.Susanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05440415508710862212noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5828721822491875400.post-52035786406298571392008-08-27T12:27:00.000-05:002008-08-27T12:27:00.000-05:00Also... I think I'm going to go by at least one mo...Also... I think I'm going to go by at least one more place to look at dresses. It's easy and right on the way home. Can't hurt, right?Maggiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03948476830389001938noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5828721822491875400.post-25425799156007707202008-08-27T12:11:00.000-05:002008-08-27T12:11:00.000-05:00Very sweet... I can't stand that whole bridezilla ...Very sweet... I can't stand that whole bridezilla deal and certainly have no intentions of going there! My problem is that I always put too much pressure on myself and none on other people. Could that be an internalized bridezella? Does that exist?!<BR/><BR/>And the shoe debate really represents general color concerns. I'll find fab shoes no matter what. I'm kind of a shoe hound that way. ;-)Maggiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03948476830389001938noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5828721822491875400.post-47820898276808069832008-08-27T12:02:00.000-05:002008-08-27T12:02:00.000-05:00Oh honey. OK, for the shoes, find some cute blue o...Oh honey. OK, for the shoes, find some cute blue ones for your something blue, or just wait a bit and you will find some in your colors, don't switch everything around just for the shoes which won't really be seen by too many people anyways.<BR/>For the officiant... I don't know :)<BR/>The dress: I bought mine super early too, and I definitely second guess when I see so many other ones, but then all I do is go look at mine, or rather pictures of me trying it on since it is at my moms, and I am happy with my decision again.<BR/>The logistics: it will work out. breathe :)<BR/>This is why girls get stuck being called bridezilla, because we are forced to plan this party that everyone has expectations of and we have to figure out how to please ourselves and them... As long as we focus on what we want, on throwing a fun party, and on marrying the one we love, it will all work out in one way or another :)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5828721822491875400.post-8246512237226055752008-08-26T18:14:00.000-05:002008-08-26T18:14:00.000-05:00Ha ha... fitting too much in is how I deal with li...Ha ha... fitting too much in is how I deal with living in this city for the time-being. ;-) So yep: live-blogging the DNC all week, wedding blogging when it suits me, working, working out to feel great in dress without starving ;-), traveling like crazy, the usual...<BR/><BR/>Loving the shoe support!Maggiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03948476830389001938noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5828721822491875400.post-16685932913097573512008-08-26T17:39:00.000-05:002008-08-26T17:39:00.000-05:00Um, how do you have this much time to second guess...Um, how do you have this much time to second guess when you've been obsessively watching the DNC? Don't you live for that? However, those shoes are totally worth not matching the rest of the wedding to have. And kudos to Trevor for not wanting you to go all shrinky on him... I always think that it is really strange for the wedding photos to show a bride that basically never exists again because she lost soo much weight just for that special occasion. (Also, if you get shoes as equally fab as those who cares if you are the skinniest-- you already have the best shoes!)S@shahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06329629158498598528noreply@blogger.com